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Teaching
Children About Animals
Children and animals seem
to be drawn to one another. The toddler who runs up to every dog he or she sees is a familiar problem to both
parents and dog owners.
Children can develop many
good qualities from owning pets: responsibility, compassion, kindness,
discipline, confidence, altruism. However, they can also learn cruelty,
selfishness, arrogance and fear. It is interesting to note that research
shows a link between adult criminal behaviour and childhood abuse of
animals.
There are some basic
understandings about animals that children need to be taught.
Feelings
First of all, animals
have feelings too. Animals are not little people and, as far as we know,
they do not experience human emotions, but that does not mean they do
not feel. Since scientists started seriously studying animal behaviour,
they have found increasing evidence that animals are more complicated
than humans have given them credit for.
For the young child, a
simple approach is best. How would you like it if someone picked you up
by the ears? Or poked you in the eye, or held you upside down, or kept
waking you up. The importance of parental supervision cannot be
overemphasized. Quite simply, young children should not be left alone
with pets, for the protection of both.
Basic Needs
Secondly, animals have
the same basic needs that people do. They need food, water, shelter, and
exercise appropriate to their species, age, size, and activity level.
Allowing a child to feed the family pet can develop caring attitudes,
but putting all responsibility on the child's shoulders can result in a
neglected pet and a child with guilt feelings. Responsibility for the
pet is best shared by the whole family.
Family Members
This brings us to the
third point. Pets are members of the family. You might discuss with your
children the roles played by different family members (mother, father,
sister, cousin, grandfather, aunt, etc.), including the family pet. If
you do not have pets, use the example of other families who do. Include
your pets in as many family activities as possible. If you do have to
leave a pet at home, involve the children in making arrangements for its
care.
Share the World
Finally, people share the
world with animals. We have a responsibility not only to look after the
animals who live with us (pets) and live for us (livestock) but also to
respect the lives of wild animals. Encourage your children to observe
nature but not to disturb it. It is far better to watch a tadpole
develop into a frog by frequent quiet visits to his pond, than to take
the tadpole home in a jar.
©2000 Elizabeth Gredley and animalINK
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